Originally Posted by keyholes
my friend has a bisexual husband. now, the husband is having a relationship with another guy for three years now. my friend and her husband has 2 kids. for the time the man to man relationship began, the husband abandoned the wife and the kids, no support whatsoever.
now, these 2 men are really out, the married man with kids, did not even mind the family he left behind and the embarrassment that their very open relationship can bring the wife and kids.
they've been posting their pictures of their happy times together on the net while the wife and kids are suffering financially, emotionally and psychologically. the kids want him back. the wife accepted the fact that the relationship was over but she is still very concerned about the happiness of her kids.
all my friend want is for her husband to be a father figure to his kids and help with the finances but it seems that the husband doesn't have plans of doing that. now, the eldest child developed a behavioral problem where they go to a therapist and clinical psychologist, she was so traumatized with what happened, a sudden change of their lifestyle due to separation. my friend is having a difficult time working day and night, even if she knows that her eldest child needs special care but wanting to make ends meet, she has no other choice. she tried talking with him but he treated her as if she is the one who committed the crime.
it's so unfair that the husband is out there enjoying himself not minding his responsibilities as a father while my friend is working doubly hard for all the problems his husband caused. i hate it that i can do nothing about this except for all the support my friend and the kids need. i got the cellphone number of the husband from facebook but i am scared to text him all my thoughts because somehow he knows my number. i want him to fulfill his obligations to his kids, for my friend's sake but i don't know how to do it. i tried it once but there's no effect on him. i tried it the second time but all i received were bad and hurtful words from him. i'm planning a text brigade. people he doesn't even know texting him. will this work?
the road to hell is paved with good intentions.. in the first place if the husband can be that irresponsible then your "friend" should not take him back or even become a father figure to her children.. why? because you are asking a person to become an example to the kids.. tell your friend to move on.. the gay bastard is nothing but a gay bastard
AND DOES SHE WANT her kids to be gay bastards also?