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Old 03-12-2009, 05:13 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Paano ba Manligaw?


I know right? How stupid of me to ask that? I'm 23, and I had 6 girlfriends in the past. Two of them are of the greatest breed that after being apart for so many years I still have a legroom for them in my heart (naks!) four were... you know just for amusement My lovelife took a long hiatus from existence until yesterday that is. I met a lovely, charming, gorgeous, beautiful young lady that caught my attention. She is really topshelf that I was able to turn my head onto her direction for a second look..considering that my neck was lock for a long time. Anyway, seriously it's starting to bother me on how am I be able to execute my strategies faultlessly.. course I want every action to be slick.. you know what mean. I started my old-age plan earlier.. I don't have the slightest idea if it worked.. I think it did.

Kindly assess my "da moves" that I did yesterday and earlier.

I asked for her number last night (tuesday) and she willingly gave it with a smile.. and then I texted her this morning asking her to add me up on her contact list. Sabi ko: "Hi goodmorning, Pa-add naman dyan! -Johann" that was the text message. And then later this afternoon I went to their place (she just graduated last march and is currently enrolled in a group study thingy..they're reviewing for the upcoming licensure exam). We have a lot of common friends.. so I'm comfortable with the site. Moving forward. I went their 'secretly' so I hid myself until their break. I was waiting outside and asked someone from the inside to text me when their lecture is over. And so I called her. Asking if she likes Jollibee.

Sabi Ko: "Something's bugging me e. Gusto ko lang malaman kung gusto mo ng Jollibee?"

Sabi nya: "Bakit?"

Sabi Ko: "Curious lang.."

Sabi nya: "Ok lang.. gusto ko yung Mascot and yung food."

And then I made something up and ended the call. She didn't know I was there. And then when she went out of the room I was standing in front of the door with a Jollibee Yum w/ TLC, Large fries and coke in my hand. I saw the look on her face.. she was shy, smiling, and she was strucked. And then Sabi Ko: "Diba you like Jollibee?"
She accepted it and shared it with her friends. While I waited outside. And she went out with a friend of ours.

Sabi nya: "Sabi ni ate tine mag thank yo daw ako e"

So I was like - 0_o sapilitan?? And then tine said that it wasn't true. She really want to thank me personally she's just hesitant..shy to face me alone. And then we started talking. It was a bit awkward cause Im running out of words and I'm sweating like hell! It was almost 4PM when I decided to leave but before that I asked her if she likes eating sweets. She said yes! Their class resumed but before I leave the venue I asked her on when is their next break gonna be. She said 5:30.. And then I handed a bar of chocolate to her.
Sabi ko: "Snack mo later..sweet yan." I said my goodbyes.. and good lucks. She thanked me and said goodbye as well. Going home I texted her a joke and she replied with an appreciation of what I did.

Para akong highschool. Mistifications such as this is acceptable if it's my first time but like I said I'm already 23. My other predicament is She's really young. She's only 17 but she looks like she's 15 even younger) and I've never courted someone who's 6 years younger than me before. I'm really hooked.. para syang nicotine So even if it's shameful on my part itatanong ko talaga. Pano gagawin ko? Good topics (on the perspective of a 17 yearold) for talks.. should I shower her with sweets/food/gifts? Should I always visit her? Should I drive her home after the group study? Should I befriend her friends and ask them for juicy info? How shold I open a message.. what kind of text messages should I send her? How should I act? Stuff like that.

I'll appreciate everything. Except for unhelpful comments.
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Old 03-12-2009, 05:22 AM   #2 (permalink)
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hehehe... Nice one bro! Well, Para sa akin, ok yun diskarte mo... Isa pa, wala namang matanda o bata sa 'pag-ibig'... sana dinala mo rin yung mascot..mas okay un or ikaw yung naging mascot! lol. Biro lang tol!
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Old 03-12-2009, 05:29 AM   #3 (permalink)
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1st kailangan mo muna malaman na ang pang liligaw ay hindi sa umpisa lamang oh kaya after ka sagutin ng girl. it should be a continues courtship
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^^Tingin mo ba magkakaroon ako ng girlfriends in the past kung hindi ko alam yun? I'm asking for help cause this is a first for me. She's young, refined, (most of the previous ones were refined as well but 'tis a lot different this time) clueless, innocent.
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change ur strategy
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^^Tingin mo ba magkakaroon ako ng girlfriends in the past kung hindi ko alam yun? I'm asking for help cause this is a first for me. She's young, refined, (most of the previous ones were refined as well but 'tis a lot different this time) clueless, innocent.
i know that by reading ur 1st post.
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Old 03-12-2009, 06:07 AM   #7 (permalink)
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change ur strategy
Could you at least expound that? Change your strategy.. how?!
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Old 03-12-2009, 08:41 AM   #8 (permalink)
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ok yung ginawa mo bro jl but wag mo lang maxadong e spoiled
kasi pag nasanay na sya dun un ang hanap hanapin nun.
well naranasan ko na kasi yan kaya un ung unang pumasok sa
utak ko nung nabasa ko yung gnawa mo and situation.
yung sa akin lang naman e tamang timpla lang. kumbaga
bgyan mo sya ng mga ganun but not always. yung pupuntahan mo sya
makikipag kwentuhan lang something ganun. tsaka nung sa akin nun e mas younger
din 23 ako at 17 din sya. nung mistake ko bingay ko sa kanya ung mga ganun. tuwing pupunta ako sa kanila or magkikita kami e may dala dala ako. yeah it sweet pero
makikita mo pag tumagal pag pupunta ka na walang bitbit parang iba mood nya
kasi nasanay na sya na merong dala. yung gnawa ko pinalitan ko yung style ko
bale pag pupunta ako kundi chocolates or pagkain sometimes flowers and minsan wala
para kwentuhan hehehe.
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Old 03-12-2009, 12:31 PM   #9 (permalink)
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Okay, thing is with guys sometimes, akala nila panliligaw consists of giving flowers, chocolates or stuff toys. You have to be sincere in panliligaw oo, pero pwede naman gawin yun without giving them these things. Yes of course it's nice to recieve these things, pero mas maganda if you show them the real you. Kasi pag napasagot mo na sila, yang mga flowers, chocolates na yun unti unti nang mawawala sa eksena

One thing you have to remember, is consistency and always always be yourself. You don't have to be the person they want you to be, ie ; if you smoke and you know that the girl you are courting hates smokers, you have to be strong about it. Yeah change is good, but not to the extent where you are only doing it to please them. Because later on, pag na frustrate ka lalabas ang true colours mo

Again for a recap, just be sincere, consistent and honest.. nothing can go wrong then
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Again for a recap, just be sincere, consistent and honest.. nothing can go wrong then
She might feak out pag nakita nya ang tunay na ako.. ...joke
Thanks! I'll take that in mind.
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Hey, quite a bit in the same jar with me

The difference would be that the girl already has a boyfriend, just made up with each other yesterday (them) and was informed about it the same day.


She's nice, and matalino. She's still on my radat though






Courting is very much the same regardless of age of the lady you're wanting to have a future with. The best advice was already given by fantasii.
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Old 03-12-2009, 02:26 PM   #12 (permalink)
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WALA ka tol...corrupting minor...masama kang tao..."tamis ng wiwi" lang ang habol mo sa bata...
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Same old situation huh?

Oh well...Good luck!
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WALA ka tol...corrupting minor...masama kang tao..."tamis ng wiwi" lang ang habol mo sa bata...
Why am I not surprised??
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