Dear Mukamo, Pasung-paso na ako...

[azumi]

I feel that the way you post, you miss your dad so much.
Now I understand why ganyan ka magtiis sa BF mo kahit sinasaktan niya damdamin mo.

Unconsciously, you choose to endure his harsh words and gestures towards you than see him leaving you or you two parting ways...kasi parang babalik yung feeling nung bata ka na umalis si dad mo and sobrang nasaktan ka.

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Can you call your dad? just to say hi, you miss him, ask if he's okay...

[shexec]

I feel that the way you post, you miss your dad so much.
Now I understand why ganyan ka magtiis sa BF mo kahit sinasaktan niya damdamin mo.

Unconsciously, you choose to endure his harsh words and gestures towards you than see him leaving you or you two parting ways...kasi parang babalik yung feeling nung bata ka na umalis si dad mo and sobrang nasaktan ka.

---------- Post added at 12:33 PM ---------- Previous post was at 12:27 PM ----------

Can you call your dad? just to say hi, you miss him, ask if he's okay...

Yeah, naiisip ko din na tawagan sya ngayon. Thank you, Azumi. Your words helps me feel get better.

[azumi]

and if possible sis, kung kaya mo i-open up kay dad that you're hurting dahil sa attitude ng BF mo... I mean, ayaw natin pag-awayin ang 2 tao or magalit siya sa BF mo pero importante kasi yung sasabihin ng isang lalake na nagmamahal sayo tungkol sa isang lalake na mahal mo pero hindi ka tina-trato ng tama...

[shexec]

I feel like giving up with my bf right now. Parang hindi na kasi tama, eh. Although, I admit may shortcomings din ako pero I don't deserve to be treated like this, eh. Parang it's too much, eh. Para he's totally a different person eh. Parang hindi ko sya kilala. Parang hindi sya yung guy na nakilala at minahal ko nung una. Parang nababastos na yung pagkatao ko, eh. I told him nga na kung hindi nya ko kayang respetuhin bilang gf nya, kahit yung pagkatao ko na lang. Pero wala pa rin ganun pa rin, wala daw syang pakialam. Hindi ko na alam kung anong gagawin ko sa kanya eh. It's like i want to give up.

[CrazyTal]

Sis.. If you feel na you really want to give him up please do so.. Don't let yourself suffer more under his reign into your heart... Your self happiness is the most important thing.

[shexec]

Sis.. If you feel na you really want to give him up please do so.. Don't let yourself suffer more under his reign into your heart... Your self happiness is the most important thing.

Tama ka. Hay, pukpukin mo nga ulo ko later pag nagkita tayo. Haha!

[CrazyTal]

Tama ka. Hay, pukpukin mo nga ulo ko later pag nagkita tayo. Haha!

heheheh wag naman untog ko na lang hehehe

[azumi]

I feel like giving up with my bf right now. Parang hindi na kasi tama, eh. Although, I admit may shortcomings din ako pero I don't deserve to be treated like this, eh. Parang it's too much, eh. Para he's totally a different person eh. Parang hindi ko sya kilala. Parang hindi sya yung guy na nakilala at minahal ko nung una. Parang nababastos na yung pagkatao ko, eh. I told him nga na kung hindi nya ko kayang respetuhin bilang gf nya, kahit yung pagkatao ko na lang. Pero wala pa rin ganun pa rin, wala daw syang pakialam. Hindi ko na alam kung anong gagawin ko sa kanya eh. It's like i want to give up.

sis, read between his lines : Wala akong pakialam.

ano ibig sabihin niyan sayo?
kung ako ang dad mo, susuntukin ko yan eh.
He's the very opposite of your dad right now...if only you could get the courage to dump him and refuse to let the painful feeling of being left by your dad haunt you in the process.

Your dad left for good reasons for sure, only he knows.
But your bf? Bakit siya ba ang pinaka gwapong lalake dito sa earth?
Hari ba siya para tapak tapakan lang ang pagkatao ng isang tao?

Sometimes, we fail to see the right guy because we are focused on the wrong one.

Sis matagal ng nag give up ang bf mo sayo, ikaw na lang ang hindi bumibitaw... sana marealize mo kung gaano ka kaganda at gaano kadami ang nagmamahal sayo para hindi ka nagtitiis sa ganyang pagtrato niya sayo.

[shexec]

sis, read between his lines : Wala akong pakialam.

ano ibig sabihin niyan sayo?
kung ako ang dad mo, susuntukin ko yan eh.
He's the very opposite of your dad right now...if only you could get the courage to dump him and refuse to let the painful feeling of being left by your dad haunt you in the process.

Your dad left for good reasons for sure, only he knows.
But your bf? Bakit siya ba ang pinaka gwapong lalake dito sa earth?
Hari ba siya para tapak tapakan lang ang pagkatao ng isang tao?

Sometimes, we fail to see the right guy because we are focused on the wrong one.

Sis matagal ng nag give up ang bf mo sayo, ikaw na lang ang hindi bumibitaw... sana marealize mo kung gaano ka kaganda at gaano kadami ang nagmamahal sayo para hindi ka nagtitiis sa ganyang pagtrato niya sayo.

Yes, that's how he treated me. Minsan makulit ako, selosa, pero hindi yun rason para muramurahin nya ako. I wish magising na na lang ako one morning and have the courage to just dump him. Maybe tama ka, na matagal na syang naggive up sa akin, pero ako lang itong parang asong **** na hahabul-habol sa kanya.

[azumi]

kaya mo yan sis, basta ang isipin mo,

1) hindi lang siya ang lalake sa mundo
2) valuable ka no matter how imperfect you are, you are beautiful
3) Your mom raised you, she and your dad loved you
4) its an insult to your parents if you let anyone treat you like garbage when they treated you like a precious gem.
5) ang kakulitan at pagseselos mo ay pwedeng i-solve sa pag uusap na walang bastusan.
6) eh kaso bastos siya, walang respeto.
7) hindi ka magiging masaya at magkakaron ng maayos at buong pamilya one day kung hahayaan mo lang na ang partner mo ay tina-trato kang aso.
8) Wag kang matakot mawalan ng BF, matakot ka at baka ang makatuluyan mo ay maling lalake.
9) Wag kang matakot na mawalan ng tao na naglalambing at nakaka-alala sayo kung asan ka at kung kumain ka na, matakot ka kung yang malambing na tao na yan eh iinsultuhin lang paulit ulit ang pagkatao mo.

[shexec]

kaya mo yan sis, basta ang isipin mo,

1) hindi lang siya ang lalake sa mundo
2) valuable ka no matter how imperfect you are, you are beautiful
3) Your mom raised you, she and your dad loved you
4) its an insult to your parents if you let anyone treat you like garbage when they treated you like a precious gem.
5) ang kakulitan at pagseselos mo ay pwedeng i-solve sa pag uusap na walang bastusan.
6) eh kaso bastos siya, walang respeto.
7) hindi ka magiging masaya at magkakaron ng maayos at buong pamilya one day kung hahayaan mo lang na ang partner mo ay tina-trato kang aso.
8) Wag kang matakot mawalan ng BF, matakot ka at baka ang makatuluyan mo ay maling lalake.
9) Wag kang matakot na mawalan ng tao na naglalambing at nakaka-alala sayo kung asan ka at kung kumain ka na, matakot ka kung yang malambing na tao na yan eh iinsultuhin lang paulit ulit ang pagkatao mo.

Tama, tama! Thanks! Paunti-unti natatauhan na ako sa mga advice ninyo.

[azumi]

sis, natauhan ka na.
natatakot ka lang mag isa at maiwan ulit
natatakot ka lang maramdaman yung feeling na "wala na siya', "asan na siya"
kasi yung childhood experience mo.
malalampasan mo din yan if you stick with the right people who care for you
and if you reconsider your relationship with yourself
it's time you show some lovin' to the girl who looks at you in the mirror.
Make her smile!
Date her!
Surround her with positive people
and good girlfriends!

[shexec]

sis, natauhan ka na.
natatakot ka lang mag isa at maiwan ulit
natatakot ka lang maramdaman yung feeling na "wala na siya', "asan na siya"
kasi yung childhood experience mo.
malalampasan mo din yan if you stick with the right people who care for you
and if you reconsider your relationship with yourself
it's time you show some lovin' to the girl who looks at you in the mirror.
Makes her smile!
Date her!
Surround her with positive people
and good girlfriends!

Naks! Galing naman girl. Parang alam mo at ramdam mo what im feeling inside. Tama ka, takot lang nga yata talaga ako maramdaman yung "wala na siya".

[azumi]

hehehe, alam ko talaga yan, napag daanan ko na na yan.
takot ako na naiiwan, ayoko ng naiiwan.
kaya ako ang nang iiwan bago pa ako iwanan.
..which is mali din

[shexec]

hehehe, alam ko talaga yan, napag daanan ko na na yan.
takot ako na naiiwan, ayoko ng naiiwan.
kaya ako ang nang iiwan bago pa ako iwanan.
..which is mali din

hahahahah! loka ka pala, eh.