Versus the Mother in law

[samuraiX]

Bakit kaya ang kaaway palagi sa mga daughter or son in law ay si mother in law? minsan lang ang father in law, ladies bakit kaya, gusto nyo ba palaging merong inaaway kung hindi si mister ang in law nyo

[FreyaLuna]

Bakit kaya ang kaaway palagi sa mga daughter or son in law ay si mother in law? minsan lang ang father in law, ladies bakit kaya, gusto nyo ba palaging merong inaaway kung hindi si mister ang in law nyo

Hindi. Ikaw lang ang aawayin namin.

On one hand, mothers are more protective of their offspring so the idea of entrusting them to someone else for life is difficult to accept for some. That's why some of them tend to find ways to prove that their son's or daughter's potential spouse is worthy of that trust.

For the daughters-in-law, you're one person who has to adapt not just to your spouse, but to his entire family and relatives. Imagine that kind of pressure placed on you, wherein you have to please an entire clan whom you've never lived with before, for the sake of their approval.

So to be fair, it's a difficult adjustment for both parties, not just one.

[oversoul1404]

kasi hanggang pagtanda ata, pakipot pa din ang babae, sa una, kunwari ayaw dun sa kapartner ng anak (mapa lalaki or babae). . and definitely for the right reasons. concerned lang sila sa magiging long time parnter ng anak nila and they would want a close scrutiny of the would be partner, as thorough as possible.

also, kapag nakasal na sila, mas may authority na sa decision making yung asawa over sa parents (not saying that they would be having a superior/inferior relationship).

i still remember the story of my father before he and my mom got married. my grandmother ran into the woods and hid under a log, because of the depression. eventually, they got along well, and that when there are chores to be done, she always asks for my father.

OT: may pinagdadaanan ka ba samx

[samuraiX]

kasi hanggang pagtanda ata, pakipot pa din ang babae, sa una, kunwari ayaw dun sa kapartner ng anak (mapa lalaki or babae). . and definitely for the right reasons. concerned lang sila sa magiging long time parnter ng anak nila and they would want a close scrutiny of the would be partner, as thorough as possible.

also, kapag nakasal na sila, mas may authority na sa decision making yung asawa over sa parents (not saying that they would be having a superior/inferior relationship).

i still remember the story of my father before he and my mom got married. my grandmother ran into the woods and hid under a log, because of the depression. eventually, they got along well, and that when there are chores to be done, she always asks for my father.

OT: may pinagdadaanan ka ba samx

wala naman akong pinagdadaanan im just curious bakit, in all the jokes, in talks about married life, bakit palagi ang mother in law ang kontrabida, minsan lang ang father in law

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Hindi. Ikaw lang ang aawayin namin.

On one hand, mothers are more protective of their offspring so the idea of entrusting them to someone else for life is difficult to accept for some. That's why some of them tend to find ways to prove that their son's or daughter's potential spouse is worthy of that trust.

For the daughters-in-law, you're one person who has to adapt not just to your spouse, but to his entire family and relatives. Imagine that kind of pressure placed on you, wherein you have to please an entire clan whom you've never lived with before, for the sake of their approval.

So to be fair, it's a difficult adjustment for both parties, not just one.

thats good if the daughter in law takes the first move but what if the mother in law is very skeptical, watching the daughter/son in law like a hawk waiting for that little mistake and make a big deal about it

ikaw frey hangang saan ang patience mo sa matigas na mother in law