Nangyayari ba talaga ito?

[Beah]

may nakausap ako na girl she claims lesbian sya or tibo. pero may asawa sya at two kids. biglaang pag aasawa lang ang nangyari dahil sa depression coz ex gf nya nag bf at nag aswa din. pero hindi sya masaya hindi nya tlga mahal yung guy para nlng sa mga anak kung bakit sila parin. may iba sya mahal at grl din yun. bilib din ako sa asawa nya kc payag ng wala na silag sex for years. i mean meron pla talaga mga ganitpng cases. she wants to get rid off her asawa pero paano nman nga anak nila. she wants to be happy kc years din sya nagtiis. i dnt know anong payo ang maibbgay ko i feel her pain. naiintriga din ako na pwede pala tlga no sex na sa mag asawa .

[CrazyTal]

Awww I never encountered that with any of my friends... I've got lesbo friends but they are in a relationship with another girl... Hmmm... that's really hard... but in my own opinion....
1. is her husband loves her that much but in return she cannot love him truthfully?
2. Having two kids is is really something... hmmm If she loved her two kids that much then can she sacrifice the life that she wanted to have now? is she really willing to give up her children? If not then try to make things work for the good of her family.

Awwww... I dunno if I am making any sense here... hmmm...
But at the end of it all... she must consider the future of her children. It's not just her responsibility nor obligation but... she agreed to have children with the man he's with and it simply means it's her choice too to have a family like that.

If she left her family, would her conscience carry all those heartaches her children would feel? Children of today are different from children of the past they are more sensitive and emo addict.

[Beah]

thanks po sa comment CrazyTal. She is involved with a girl na mahal nya tlaga after her fist love (also a girl) now lng ulet nagmahal. His husband doesnt know about this pero alam na tibo sya. yes she also thinks of her kids din naman. kaso yung gurl umaayaw na. altho they have plans. yung lesbian planning to go abroad pra doon na sila nong girl kaso dina matake nong girl yung selos.

[ControlG]

tell her not to be selfish..just stay with her family..and do it for the kids..

[oversoul1404]

well, i partly support controlg's point. she must not let her kids suffer from the 'mistake' that she committed several years ago. sabi nga nila, ang pag aasawa ay hindi parang kanin na pwede mong iluwa kapag napaso ka. kasi ngayon, hindi na lang yung asawa nya at yung jowa nya ang involved. meron na silang anak ngayon at pwedeng maapektuhan ang kanilang paglaki base sa magiging desisyon ng mag asawa.

[Beah]

tnx po ulet sa mga replies. to continue her case, she tought
at first na magbbgo din sya at mggng babae pero hindi daw
pala. actually sa umpisa plng hindi nya minahal at pinag
ccchan nya na nagpakasal sya. she has to cloe her eys and
imagine her ex gf every time gusto ng husband nya earlir on
their marriage. but after the second child na accidental lng
she tought she wasnt fertile at that time never nasya ulet
nagpagamit. at this point inamin nya din sa husband nya na
babae tlga gusto nya. at inamin din ng husband nya na alam na
nito umpisa plng na ganon sya kea nagalit sya at sna hinayaan
nlng sya una plng. for her she tried her best na ibgay sa guy
ang needs nito bilang lalaki but she couldnt take it anymore.
so the husband decided na hintayin lng muna for their kids na
limaki at makintindi mag matured bago hwalaay. as of now
nagssma sila pero hindi na tlga sila. the wife askd the
husband na hunanap narin ng iba para mgng masaya nman ito kc
nga hindi nya na mbbgay kay husband yung needs

[Aga Mulat]

tHE BEST IS maghiwalay nalang nga sila. Wala sa puso ni tibo ang mapamahal sa lalake. Hmm..just like some guys, isa rin siyang walang huevos!!!! Manggagamit at magdadala ng mga inosenteng bata sa mundo'ng ito para lamang pahirapan mentaly and emotionally. Galit ako sa mga ganitong ugali.

[CrazyTal]

Haizt! One word girl! Sorry but they both are insane haizt!
How old are the kids? Some Kids now can early understand gaps in the family.
If your friend thinks that her kids are one of those then she must take the initiative to tell to them little by little until they fully understand. Letting the children live in mendacity is not good for them. They rather live in truthfulness. But if she thinks her children cannot handle it then she really must decide to stay or really let go of her family

[Beah]

Yup nakausap ko din yung girl kaya gusto nya na din lumayo pero she doesnt know how to.do it kc npamahal na din.sya at andon narin ang guilt kaso kung ano ano daw sinasabi sa kanya nong tibo ayaw sya i let go. Kesyo wait lng daw for a time na mgsma.sila kaya ang gngwa ni tibo review to the max para sa board exam. Yun lng kc daw.way para maka alis na.sila. pero andon narin ang na realise ni.girl na sayang lang pagkatao nya. Kahit pa sa materyal nq bagay punuin sya. Meaningless and she is not happy anymore according to her. Mahilig din daw manumbat si tibo reason para unti unti tumabang na love ni girl.

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Kuya aga, actually don na nakatira yung gurl at nsa ibang bansa nman yung asawa. Buti nga hindi nahahalata nong mga anak. Elementary plng. Oo nkk hate tlga i guess ang tao may sellfishness din tlga..

[CrazyTal]

What!!! Dun na nakatira ung girl? oh my! baka sooner or later mas maging complicated yan! baka mamaya ung husband nia and ung girl ng friend mo magka relationship pag umuwi ung guy... hmmm.. that's something she should watch out tsk tsk

[Beah]

Sis tingin ni tibo may pamilya na rin na iba yung husband nya kc dati tinawagan nya sa ibang bansa babae ang sumagot at sa background may boses ng bata. And for tibo ayus kng kung saan happy hubby nya bsta wag png pbyaan kids nila. So the tibo wants to be happy lng. After many years.

[CrazyTal]

Hmmm... ang super complicated sis... hmmm...

[Beah]

Yes sis kaya sbe ko hwalayan nlng si tibo. Para sa ikabubuti ng lahat. Problema na ni tibo pano nya ihahandle yung lungkot nya since ai girl nagsumbong din sa akin na minura pala aya ni tibo at minsan pinalayas sya lalayas na sna sabay sorey si tibo kay girl. Ai girl kc mhal nya na rin tlga. Sbe ko sayng sya. I hope tama ang advice ko.

[CrazyTal]

Yeah girl! Stick to your advice! Better cut it off early if ganun na pala nangyayari. Masasaktan lang xa ng super if she still continues to.