True love nga ba ang naramdaman mo or hindi?

[azumi]

Let's say may jowa ka ngayon at mahal mo siya siyempre.
Then kelangan niyang umalis. Uuwi sa malayong kamag anak for an important matter.
Then bumalik na siya at pinagpatuloy niyo ang buhay niyo together.
Mas minahal mo pa siya. Pinaramdam niya din sayo na mas minamahal ka niya.

After some time, nalaman mo ang totoo.
Yung bumalik pala na tao galing sa malayo eh fake.
May kambal pala yung ka-relasyon mo at alam niya ang tungkol sayo
at gumawa siya ng paraan para siya ang maging jowa mo by pretending na siya yung jowa mo na umuwi at pagkatapos ay bumalik.

The problem is:

1) Sabi ni fake jowa, siya ang mas mahal mo kesa sa kakambal niya kaya dapat na siya ang piliin mo.
2) Mas madaming magandang memories with fake jowa than the real one.
3) Sobrang nasaktan si real jowa mo dahil nagawa mong magmahal ng ibang tao.

Question:

Masasabi mo bang true love yung naramdaman mo dun sa nag-pretend na jowa mo? Bakit? Bakit hinde?
kung fake pala yung taong natutunan mong mahalin, does it follow na fake din yung naramdaman mo sa kanya?

[bishop]

Question:

Masasabi mo bang true love yung naramdaman mo dun sa nag-pretend na jowa mo? Bakit? Bakit hinde?

That is a subjective answer to a subjective question.

What you "feel" toward the "fake person" is completely up you.

Whether you are correct in feeling what you are feeling, is another subject all together.

The "fake person" has already displayed "bad faith" from the very begining. He is a pretender.

The question for him is this: if he truly "loves" you, then why the need for the decpetion.

He is, as your hypothetical situtation puts it, a "twin". A twin who looks excactly like the other.

So why the need for the deception?

The fact that he initiated a relationship in bad faith by being a pretender, is already indicative that he has no morals and holds no principles in life. That he views "lying" as justifiable.

So the ball is now in your court. Should you love someone who has no morals or principles in life?

[ControlG]

ditch both and move on... look for someone who will respect you from the very beginning

[menandro]

Pwedeng istoryang pang telenovela..naamaze ako sa pag kakaisip mu ng sitwasyon na to ah..is it a true to life experience ba?..

[azumi]

hehehe, menandro, wala pa naman ako nakilalang twins na pineke ako pero marami na akong nakilalang mga tao na peke ang pagkatao

[menandro]

Question:

Masasabi mo bang true love yung naramdaman mo dun sa nag-pretend na jowa mo? Bakit? Bakit hinde?
kung fake pala yung taong natutunan mong mahalin, does it follow na fake din yung naramdaman mo sa kanya?

Mag ka-iba naman siguro ugali nung "real" sa "fake" tama?..

The way they moves..

The way they talk to you..

The way they holds your hand..

Conclusion..

Hindi..Different person..and Different emotions..

[Aga Mulat]

sabi na nga ba at ka suspe-suspetcha yang si "sir" na yan eh!!!

[azumi]

hahahaha doc, ibang thread yun si "sir"

[FreyaLuna]

marami na akong nakilalang mga tao na peke ang pagkatao

Same here. Fake name, fake identity, fake performance.

I also saw this plotline in Fringe. If you enjoy sci-fi TV you might want to watch this because in the second or third season it explores the emotional ramifications of loving someone who was mistaken for the real thing.

Masasabi mo bang true love yung naramdaman mo dun sa nag-pretend na jowa mo? Bakit? Bakit hinde?

Bishop is right -- your feelings came from you and these are genuine, because you loved in good faith.

kung fake pala yung taong natutunan mong mahalin, does it follow na fake din yung naramdaman mo sa kanya?

No. the feelings are real, the person is not.

[CrazyTal]

This is really hard... But when I put my shoes on the girls side.. I rather do this:

1. Don't talk to both of them and cry it all out.

2. Once I'm calm and ready to face them, will analyze things and consider my own happiness with the decision that I'm gonna make since they've done a cruel thing to me.

3. Once my decision is ready, will face them one by one first.

4. Will call the twin whom pretended and will just hear his side of story. He will not hear a word from me.

5.Then will call the twin, the EX BF and will just hear his side of story. Also, he will not hear a word from me.

6. Lastly, I'll call them both to share what I really feel in just one shot. For them to both see how much hurt they caused and how they rocked my world. Then I'll tell them my final decision. For the contentment of my mind and heart. For the closure that I rightfully deserves.

Hooosh! This story is really scary that I don't even want to experience...

[oversoul1404]

hmm, a house built on a poor foundation if bound to fail, kahit gano pa kaganda at katibay ang mga poste, pader, hamba, biga at flooring mo.

[hersmile]

i was thinking what menandro said...parang teleseryes or something lol! they should make one for this!

i agree with what bishop and the rest are saying, it can't be based on lies.

pag ako...i'd probably walk out on both.

"fake" was ...well...fake. why be with someone who just pretends to be someone else. i mean, how exactly did this even come out? did fake confess or i found out on my own?

with the "real" guy....where was he all along? if he really loved me, he'd be back with me and let me know that i'm with the twin. why did he let it happen? if he didn't know...then baka may possibility pa kami ni "real"...maybe.

hmmmm...i really like this question...matanong ko nga sa iba kong prends hehe

[ChamELyon]

Mag ka-iba naman siguro ugali nung "real" sa "fake" tama?..

The way they moves..

The way they talk to you..

The way they holds your hand..

Conclusion..

Hindi..Different person..and Different emotions..

I agree and you can feel it!