Kabit with Benefits

**Aga Mulat** · 06-28-2012, 01:16 AM

I can see why men tend to have "alaga", "kabit-kabit" on the side. Lalo na yun mga successful sa business, may pamilya at anak pero naghahanap ng konting spice in life...tapos may lalapit-lapit na gaya ng nasa pic halimbawa. The man on his "day off" from family will come to the townhouse of such a gal and "Voila!" ganyan ang salubong? Daym!!!

Di mo naman masasabing nanggagamit lang ang man dahil supportado naman yung girl in exchange for the pleasure of her company.

Any opinions?

**Aga Mulat** · 10-03-2012, 05:42 AM

So huwalang opinions??

**bishop** · 10-03-2012, 05:49 AM

Kung sengol ang lalake, okey lang.

Pag dobol na, hindi na dapat mag aalaga pa sa tabi si mister.

Yung gastos nya para sa alaga nya, don na lang dapat pumunta sa pamilya nya.

Para saken, masyado lang insekyur ang lalake pag nakaroon ng kabit kahit may pamilya na.

**Aga Mulat** · 10-03-2012, 06:03 AM

Pero b, may mga kababaihan na ganyan na ang hina-hunting talaga ay padre de pamilya na para walang commitment kung baga. It's their "safety net" kung baga na kumabit sa lalaki'ng may pamilya na o hinde ba??

**bishop** · 10-03-2012, 06:08 AM

^aba uu naman.

Talagang marami jan na naghahanap ng "bakod" kung baga.

Pero sa kabilang palad, meron naman jan mga mayaman na sengol.

At kaya sila sengol pa rin, kasi ayaw rin nila ng "commitment".

Ayon, pwede sila magkagamitan sa isat isa. di ba?

**frango** · 10-03-2012, 04:57 PM

Pag tunay na asawa daw ang tawag sa kanya ay "maybahay".

Ang kabit naman ang tawag sa kanya ay "may condo".

~~BleedingInside~~ · 10-04-2012, 12:44 AM

because they feel more secure in most aspect and yet they can still do whatever they want because there's no such thing as commitment, just my IMHO. Yung iba naman, gusto nila mas matured kasi sawa na sa isip bata na bagets. Because, seriously sa panahon ngayon guys age from 18-24 most of them mga pleasure seeker lang. Pero yung mga age 30-45, yes they are also considered as pleasure seekers, pero most of the time may kapalit. Dun yun nagkakatalo.

**femmedelicieux** · 10-04-2012, 06:06 PM

Are you asking if it's okay to have a mistress kung yung babae mismo ang lumalapit and she is benefiting from the relationship anyway?

It doesn't matter kung lalapit-lapit yung babae. You have a commitment to your wife and family. It's your responsibility to honor that commitment. Why blame the woman for your not being able to keep it in your pants? Ikaw ang may asawa, you should know your limits. Di ka naman siguro tinutukan ng baril o patalim para lumandi.

In this arrangement you offer the mistress financial support in exchange for her company and sexual favors. You are commodifying your relationship, so bakit di masasabing naggagamitan kayo?

**Aga Mulat** · 10-04-2012, 10:07 PM

^ Exactly! Gamit-gamitan lang nga.

**Chiffon** · 10-06-2012, 12:25 AM

dati nasama ako sa beer house ng mga katrabaho ko. yung may mga sumasayaw talaga hubo't hubad. Enjoooooy na enjoy sila pero honestly I dunno what the hype was about. karamihan sa kasama namin eh may mga asawa, anak pa nga e. Yung iba may mga gf naman tulad ko.

Eto lang explanation sakin nung isa.

"Ganito yan pre. Mahilig ako sa nilaga. Pero pa minsan minsan gusto ko naman tumikim ng menudo"

Di ko pa din maintidihan

sadiyang kulang ba ang partners nila? O nagiiba talaga pag mag asawa na?

**Aga Mulat** · 10-06-2012, 12:57 AM

^ Some men just don't grow up yun lang yun.

**Diabolique** · 10-06-2012, 12:55 PM

Perhaps it goes back to the explanation that Men are easily enticed Visually, and for them to see something new (or in this case, a different female form), they found it sexually exciting.

bistek · 10-20-2012, 12:05 PM

this is an interesting topic... masarap ang may kabit!!! hahaha...

**ent** · 10-23-2012, 10:26 PM

Originally Posted by bistek

this is an interesting topic... masarap ang may kabit!!! hahaha...

Share naman ng story dyan

**glen** · 10-25-2012, 01:52 PM

hindi na po bago ang may kabit... yung mga mayayaman nga di na tinatago na may kabit... sino ba sa mga artista ang madaming anak kahit may asawa - di ba nga hinahangaan pa sila...

i don't like the idea pero it's already part of what is happening and we can't stop it kahit meron pa batas on polygamy at cuncubinage...

kaso what i don't like is parang ang sama sama ng lalaki kung may kabit eh di hamak meron naman mga babae na nanglalalaki.... di ba same lang din yun...

so if i know of somebody na merong kabit -i would say suwerte siya ang nakaya niya ang ganun na lifestyle... for now i can't say i won't do it if kaya ko din financially kasi madali na lang gawin ang mga bawal kapag may pera ka na.